意外にも、女性が弱い男性の3タイプ

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女性に「好きな男性のタイプ」と言っても、とても一言で語りきれるものではありませんが、「思い遣り深い優しい人」「信頼に値する誠実な人」「精神的に大人な包容力がある人」など入ってきますよね。

少し意外なところで、女性はこんなタイプに弱いという記事を見て、そうかも知れないなと、納得でした。世の女性たちの多くに該当してると思うのは私だけではないと思います!

ギャップに弱い

 

 

例えば、「チャラ男だと思っていたら、いざ仕事となるとかなり重要な仕事を任されてる男性だった」とか「無愛想な人だと思っていたのに、話してみたら動植物好きな一面を見た」など

このような「意外にいい人だった」という印象を生み出す「ギャップ」は女性の心の中で高揚感を生み、興奮させる効果があるようです

特に「チャラ男」だと思っていたマイナスの感情が「重要な仕事ができる人」だったというプラスの感情への「ギャップ」に好意が大きく増幅するのでしょうね。

マメさに弱い

女性が本当に喜ぶことを把握している男性は世の中にどれほどいるのでしょうか?実際女性はそれほどの多くを望んでいるわけではなさそうです。

どちらかと言えば、「そんなこと?」と思うようなことを喜ぶ物です。「マメ」と言われる男性は、何故かそこを掴んでいるようです。

定期的に電話やメールを入れたり、女性の意見にキチンと好意的な感想を言ったり、女性の好き嫌いを覚えていたり、女性が何気なく言った事を覚えていたり

多くの男性にとっては、「小さなこと」であり「面倒くさいこと」をマメな男性は押しつけがましくなく出来てしまったりするようです。

実際、知り合いの「マメ男くん」は、彼女の誕生日に彼女の好きな花をさりげなく渡せたり、TVCMを観て、彼女が「美味しそう」と言ってた新発売のお菓子を買って行ったり、よく気付くのです。

女性は自分以外の誰かを求める「親和欲求」や、社会的に他人に認められたい「承認欲求」が強い傾向にあります。そのため、自分が必要とされていることを感じ安心感を得たいもののようです。

些細なことであっても、その安心感を与えてくれるマメさに弱く、女性は「この人と一緒にいたい」と、好意を持つようです。

「強引さ」に弱い

 

只のしつこい男性は嫌われますが、アプローチが多ければ多い程「気になる存在」になることもありますよね。これを「単純接触の効果」といい、繰り返し接することで好感度が生まれ、印象が高まる効果です。

例えば、「日曜日、オレとデートね」など、強引なアプローチをする男性に、ときとして女性は弱いようです。

「女子の顔色をうかがってばかりの男性が多いなか、強引に誘われたりするとドキッとする」という女性もいるようです。恋のはじまりを予感させるドキドキが相乗効果を生むようです。

ただし、まったく脈のない相手にこういう態度をとると、悪い意味で「強引な男」と思われ、嫌われてしまう可能性もあるので気を付けましょう。

まとめ

過去にも下記のような、こうしたらモテる男になれるよ!という記事を色々書いて来ましたが、基本的に「優しさ」「誠実さ」「包容力」はほとんどの女性が求めることだと思われます。ですが、下記にあげた3点も意外なところで言い得ています。独身男性のご参考になれば幸いです。

  1. ギャップに弱い
  2. マメさに弱い
  3. 強引さに弱い

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